Would you rather weekend! (late)

So, I completely forgot!

Would you rather disappear, and no one could see you, but you could see them, or have the 2 people you love most disappear but you remain?

Okay, I know this one is kinda sad, but I was reading about the bees, and thinking about disappearing things. I think I'd rather disappear and be able to see them, but how painful would it be to see them missing me. At least I hope they would. My official vote on the situation would be for no-one to disappear, but that wasn't a choice.